labour experience

I'm so proud to say how much I enjoyed my birth experience.

Well ladies, remember.

First of all- seluk itu TIDAK sakit. Or if you have gone through it and rasa sakit, then your nurse tuh mmg tak pandai menyeluk.

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11th August 2011

berbuka puasa with the in laws. then after isya' forced husband to teman makan pizza hut. ordered a large chicken supreme with extra cheesy lava.

arrived home roughly around 11pm. borak2 dengan husband and lepas tuh gelak - gelak (tak ingat sebab apa). decided to trick him - pura2 buat macam sakit nak beranak.(lol). tried it before (so many times)-unfortunately tak berjaya.

11.45pm tengah syok2 gelak (time tuh tgh baring), tiba2 rasa sakit sangat from belakang and bawak ke depan. literally im screaming sebab sakit sangat -tapi kejap je. husband was stunned. so was i. at first i thought -where this gush of water coming from? told husband- oh my air ketuban sudah pecah. tapi lepas tuh air mencurah2 keluar everytime ive made a move. so i sat on the bed and wait for husband to pack things. time tuh rasa macam nak tergelak sebab tak sakit langsung. 

mil gave milo for energy katanya. few minutes later, all the things ive eaten hours before, keluar macam air terjun. HMM!

12th August 2011

around 12.15am in laws sent us to the pcmc. oh nasib baik rumah dekat je (and tak jem).

arrived pcmc around 12.35am and went straight to the a&e.  terus dibawa ke labour room -level 6.

i was lucky because no one is in labour. so apparently the nurses werent really strict. my pil, sil, bil semua keluar masuk labour room je. hehe

 

i remember the first question ive asked the nurse, kak, kene seluk sekarang ke? kawan saya cakap sakit. (lol) 

had ctg, and nurses were surprised to see how calm i was. mmg tak rasa sakit langsung tapi air mencurah2. i kept on asking questions like mcmane kalau tak rasa sakit langsung and at the same time air ketuban keluar macam air paip. hahaha, akak tuh cakap jangan risau apa2..

nurse cakap stay in labour room je sebab senang nak monitor. and the labour room dekat pcmc macam bilik je cuma takde carpet. so takdela rasa takut.

around 2am, diseluk buat pertama kalinya. yes, tidak rasa apa2. was told i had 2cm dilated.

facebooking, tengok tv and ketawa lagi. husband asked me to sleep saja. so did the nurses. tak boleh tidur. told hubby this maybe the time. sehari sebelum tuh asyik mimpi dapat pegang baby je.

around 3am both of us buat solat sunat. sempat baca surah luqman and maryam. 

3.30am, my parents arrived. relieved. glad to see their faces. tiba2 rasa sayu tgk muka mak. macam mana lah mak rasa sakit time lahirkan saye. 

tiba2 rasa nak membuang. husband said better ask the nurses. nurse cakap kene check lagi sekali lagi. oh, baru 3cm. nurse bagi ubat senang buang. stayed at the bilik air almost 40minutes. 

sakit itu sudah datang. tak tahu berapa minit apart sebab tak tahu nak kira. husband asyik suruh to breathe properly. sometimes i ignore je ape die cakap. heh. husband asyik tanya, nak epidural ke. i told him- no way, im gonna deliver this baby with all the pain. mak boleh handle, so do i.

sakit beranak itu tersangatlah sakit but remember its still bearable.

but around 5.30am, sakit itu tersangatlah sakit. and told husband, i cannot stand anymore and need the epidural badly. (hahahahahaha). had mum and husband with me. i said to husband nak pergi toilet balik, and luckily mak cakap inform the nurse first. nurse check lagi. lepas tuh tanya, cuba teka sudah bukak berapa. i said 6, husband said 7, mak said 8. nurse cakap sudah bukak 9. she said not advisable to go to toilet. tapi die bagi jugak. try nak membuang tapi sudah kosong. lol.

so, no epidural for me lah sebab dah bukak 9 kan.

nurse called dr seri and within 15minutes she arrived. i was so ready to push. memang rasa nak push sangat2 tapi kene tunggu dr. at some point mmg kepit je kaki tu. mom told me she halalkan everything  and ampunkan dosa2 saya. sangat terharu. i mintak maaf to both mom ad husband. husband gave all the kata2 semangat. 

around 5.55am, dr is ready and letak je kaki dekat atas alat tuh mmg terus nak push rasanya. was told to push bila rasa sakit. dr said i was very lucky sebab pintu rahim sangat lembut. the funny thing was, dr sampai je, my husband terus tanya dr seri- dr, ini yang kene buat hee hee hoo tuh ke? lol. dr kata, no need, push saje. i said to the dr, can i scream as well. she said no. it only happens in tamil movies je. 

3 pushes and im all done. at 6.10am little missy disambut dengan assalamualaikum and all the pain gone lah.

husband did the azan and iqamat. the tahnik process came in later. lepas tu saya sambung facebook balik. lol.

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syukur alhamdulillah. i must say i had a fast and easy labour. mmg kalau tak bukak sampai 9cm tuh mmg ambil epi kot. time dah 9cm tuh nurse provide the laughing gas dekat tepi. tapi ive decided not to inhale sebab nak tunjuk kuat sangat tahan the pain. hihihih.

nurse cakap, kalau ada rezeki dapat anak no 2, terus berlari ke hospital ye. senang sangat awak beranak ni.

apa2 pon, i prefer my labour experience than my pantang. lol.

mummy and abah love you, nur adelia humaira. muahssss